Dean

There’s a little known fact that the more successful you become – happier, healthier, fitter, more content – the more the average person begins to hate you. Think about. Let’s take a dramatic example. A guy rolls up in a smokin’ hot red ferrari to the restaurant you’re having dinner at. Like MJ Demarco talks about in his book The Millionaire Fastlane, once he finally got an ultra-sports car, people assumed all kinds of things about him: “He must have a tiny dick.” “He must be a real asshole.” “He must be compensating for the fact that the rest of his life is total shit.” Think about it. When was the last time we saw someone in a sports car, and didn’t assume anything about them, and just observed? When you say “Wow, cool car huh?” to the average person, all the judgments crop up. “He must have rich parents. He must have inherited it. He must be a douche.” Blah blah blah. The mind goes wild. The raw truth is that the average person will HATE YOU for being special. For being amazing....

Gossip is idle talk or rumor , especially about the personal or private affairs of others; the act is also known as dishing or tattling . Gossip has been researched in terms of its evolutionary psychology origins. This has found gossip to be an important means by which people can monitor cooperative reputations and so maintain widespread indirect reciprocity . Indirect reciprocity is a social interaction in which one actor helps another and is then benefited by a third party. Gossip has also been identified by Robin Dunbar , an evolutionary biologist, as aiding social bonding in large groups. Everyone gossips about something or someone. It’s human nature, it always happens. We don’t necessarily mean to be harmful, but there are some bad effects of gossip we all should know. As women we should stand up for one another but do not humble each other. Probably if you think about what you’re doing before sharing stories, or spreading gossips, you can realize that it’s coming fro...

There are some kinds of  f oods which should be avoided when pregnant . Some may harm the health of the expectant mother, some, the developing baby, as they may contain harmful bacteria or toxins. 1. Avoid soft and unpasteurised cheese Not all cheeses are harmful, but you should avoid mould-ripened cheeses such as blue cheeses, brie, camembert, Danish Blue, and Roquefort, for example. These may contain  listeria bacteria which could cause listeriosis, which, at worst, could lead to still-birth or  miscarriage . 2. Avoid undercooked and processed meats  The rule is not to eat raw or undercooked meats while you’re pregnant. Make sure that all meat is well cooked. Either avoid processed meats such as hot dogs and polony, or make sure that they are completely cooked. This is because the risk of food poisoning is higher in pregnant women. 3. Avoid raw fish Raw fish should be avoided, as well as fish with potentially high mercury content such as older,...

Mistakes are an inevitable part of life, and as easy as it is to look past the little things, ongoing mistakes in behavior can threaten the foundations of your marriage, and even lead to its collapse! Here are six common mistakes that women often make in their marriages:   1. Unclear Expectations  One of the most common complaints among husbands is that they simply don’t know what their wives want or expect. This can lead to all sorts of problems when it comes to household responsibilities, finances, time spent together, or any other aspect of a marriage. Men can sometimes feel blindsided by complaints or problems that they simply didn’t know were occurring – because they did not know what was expected of them. To keep things clear, outline your expectations up front. If you want him home at a certain time, let him know! Don’t expect him to be able to read your mind.   2. Forgetting Affection Because men are supposed to be the “tough” ones, it may be easy f...

Health related issues you won't believe are associated with Air Conditioning.   1. Illness and constant fatigue Shivering at your office desk in mid-July? That might be the reason you are so tired. Research shows that people who work in over air-conditioned environments may experience chronic headaches and fatigue. Those who work in buildings which are constantly being pumped full of cool air may also experience constant mucous membrane irritation and breathing difficulties. This leaves you more vulnerable to contracting colds, flu’s and other illnesses.   2. Dry skin Long hours spent in air conditioned environments causes your skin to lose moisture; if you are not aiding your skin with a constant supply of moisturizers you may begin to suffer from dry skin. 3. Adds to the effects of your chronic illness Central air conditioning systems are known to enhance the effects the illness that you may already be suffering from. AC is notorious for increasing the symptoms of l...

  “Even though there’s no right or wrong way to live your life, there are certain universal principles that lead to a happy, wealthy, and healthy life.”   “I think you know the principles. Everyone does. But 99% of all people don’t do what they know.” 1.No Strain, No Gain We often talk about doing all kinds of crazy shit. Climb mountains, run marathons, skydive, start businesses, travel the world, write books, record albums, make movies, the list is endless. Just think about what’s on your bucket list for a second. Now, can you ask yourself one thing? Why haven’t you done those things? The answer almost always comes down to this: It’s hard. Well, I hate to break it to you, but life is SUPPOSED to be hard! That’s probably the most valuable lesson one have to learn. Don’t shy away from hard things. Instead, train yourself to become a person that can endure difficulties. Physically  and  mentally. The cliché is 100% true: No strain, no gain. If you do...

If anything's hard in a relationship, it's constantly keeping the affection of the person you love. Even though it may seem difficult, it's not impossible. I like to think that "if there's a will, there's a way." If you want something enough and you're willing to work for it, you'll be able to accomplish it. This applies even to love. Therefore, through experience and much pondering, I have come to the conclusion that constant attention is required to discover the little details that will help your partner fall in love with you daily. Here I share five points to help you keep your husband completely in love with you: Believe in yourself There's something so attractive about a woman that doesn't doubt herself, her beauty, her faith or her qualities. Realizing how great you are will ensure that your husband holds on to you in difficult times. But, more importantly, he will admire your strength and mental clarity in times of need. ...